baby bold
8 / 03 / 2011Thaaaaaaat’s riiiiiiight my little chickadees.
booshy is having A BABY!
(I’d post a picture…but my blog is currently broken – for serious. And I have no idea how to fix it)
Yes, you and I both read that correctly.
A baby.
A real, live human one.
(I’ll wait for the shock to wear off…….)
(still waiting)
(it took me awhile, too….)
(actually, I don’t even think I’m used to it…yet)
I know.
Exciting. Crazy. Unexpected. Life changing.
I’m still kind of in shock.
Mostly because I’ve somehow managed to develop the kind of boobs only seen in the curtained off section in the movie rental store.
Anyhow, NOW, you know why I haven’t been blogging about much of anything lately. Hopefully everyone hasn’t abandoned me…
I know a few of you guessed my “condition” on Twitter…and I politely ignored you for the most part…even though I felt slightly biaotchish doing it…so I apologize Shannon and Jess. loveyoumeanit.
See, I’ve had to keep this little secret from everyone since we found out in late June. I mean, we did the proper thing and told our parents and our siblings already, so it’s not like this global announcement is a huge surprise to them – it just means they are now allowed to tell anyone who crosses their path.
Hear that, mommas? ANYONE.
And since we found out, EVERYTHING has been centered around this little bean in my bellah (we’re calling it Sprout). Our entire life has been mostly…totally…consumed by what is going to happen seven months from now.
Seven. Months.
That’s not exactly a very long time…yet it’s forever. I don’t know if that makes sense to anyone but me.
And, really, the timing…impeccable (insert sarcasm). I have my birthday on Groundhog’s Day (February 2 for those uninformed) and at that point I’ll be all huge and uncomfortable and then a few weeks later?
BABY.
Estimated due date? 2/17/12
Wowza.
THIS?
THIS is my big, fat secret that we didn’t want to share until we passed the 12-week mark.
(Hopefully I didn’t disappoint!)
Now, do your newly knocked up friend a massive favor and go forth and share the news and send EVERY SINGLE mommy-blogger person my way. Or send anyone who’ll listen to me and keep me sane…puhlease!!!
This sending of HALP!!, by the way, is the BIG FAVOR I was talking about a few weeks ago.
I repeat: I need HALP!
I’m brand spankin’ new to all of this…and I need lots and lots and lots and LOTS of people to tell me I’m not crazy. Or fat. Or going to permanently lose the body I’ve known for 28 years.
This whole experience is already freaking me out.
*I* am freaking out.
My *body* is freaking out.
I know I’m trying to be all Yay! and lighthearted about this, but seriously, if I’m totally honest about it, I am absolutely terrified.
I’m needy. And right now (the pregnancy hormones) aren’t afraid to admit that.
So, if you’re a lurker…now is the time to delurk. Even if it’s only through email.
I don’t think I’ve ever – EVER – needed more support than right now, during these next seven months (Holy crap. Seven months til Baby Gate).
Everything in my entire world…everything that I’ve ever known is about to be turned upside-down and inside out.
HALP!!!!!!!!
Oh, right. The good news. The bright side. You now have a front row seat to all of my stories and meltdowns that I’ve had to be all hush hush about. I mean, remember my assplosion at Mile High? That absolutely wasn’t an upset stomach.
THAT was courtesy of said pregnancy and the baby saying HELL NO…wait…my child doesn’t curse…heck? Heavens? Anyway, a big fat NO to Chinese food.
And my airport meltdown with Delta?
Hormones. Of the pregnancy variety.
See what I mean? My life has already been consumed!!
(PSA/hint-hint-wink-wink: Tim has already learned that you never say NO to a pregnant woman)







Wheee! Congratulations!!!
Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited for you and KNEW this was it, but didn’t say it on Twitter cuz I knew you’d ignore it ;-P As for baby momma bloggers, clearly I am no pro, but my sis Jen is a new mom (well almost a year in!) so she would obviously be good (Growing More than Vegetables – my blogroll) and Live Love & Run (she’s a momma and a runner!) is another I can think of that at least has some little ones running around
YAY!!!!!!!!
Baby booshy, I love it!! I can’t say I have ANY advice whatsoever, but I do have a few blog friends who have recently had baby ones I can point ya too. And I am always here to entertain, so there’s that too
Ooooooh congrats! How exciting! I can’t give much advice since I don’t have a wee one yet but from what I’ve seen from my friends and other mom bloggers is don’t freak yourself out reading a ton of books, only eat for one and make it healthy, and don’t stop exercising.
You’re gonna do great!
Well, I am 40 weeks, 4 days today and i am having a c section tomorrow b/c apparently i am birthing a toddler. Oh and the doctor reminded me I wasn’t 23……thanks for the reminder, doc!
All I can tell you is you can make it what you want……with our without sickness. You can read all you want and you will find anything you want to support your thinking, and support the exact opposite.
The best advice I can give to you is to ENJOY it. Take everything in moderation, from the food you eat to reading every book out there. And sign up for baby center calendar. You get a weekly update with just the right amount of information.
February will be here before you know it. Best of luck Jessica. You’re gonna love it.
Um, YAY! I knew it. YAY! I figured as much when you politely started ignoring my egging on to spill the beans.
I’m totally throwing you a baby shower. ::orders life size cardboard cut out::
I knew it!!!!!!!!!! Congrats lady! So very happy for the both of you.
You should also know that I’m counting on you to keep posting things about asplosions so I know what to expect if the day every comes that an alien starts growing in me. Yes, mine will be a baby alien.
yay!!! congrats – i so knew it
how is tim holding up?
keep sprout in there a little longer and we can celebrate birthdays together (go march 2 people!!).
w00t, it’s a baby ya’ll
Congratulations!! I totally knew it!!
Congrats!!! I suspected this might be the secret! It was not mine, but that’s what everyone assumed. Haha. So of course- the next obligatory question- are you going to find out the sex? ;o)
Congrats to you AND Tim (first rule of fatherhood I noticed is that often it is all about teh mumz, and teh dadz get ignored/backgrounded). As you might recall I have two of these now, one nearly three years old, the other three months. This will change your life, in ways you expect, ways you don’t, but also some things might not change like you anticipate. Try to relax and enjoy the ride.
It is perfectly normal to be freaked out and hyper nervous; this is novel for both of you and also one of those things you only truly understand when you participate in it. Focus (but not obsess) on the things you can affect, try to forget about the things you can’t. Don’t feel obligated to follow every piece of advice you encounter either
oh God!!! this is so great
i thik Tim and you will make great parents to little baby bold
congratulations, and trust me, your body is beautiful, that is why it’s capable of creating new human beings
Congratulations!
Anne: thank you!!
jobo: I’ll have to check out your blog suggestions! – thank you!! And you’re an aunt…so that counts for something, right??
Jess: I’m going to require lots of entertainment, I fear
Lara: good advice, thank you!! Dr. Google will be the end of me, I’m sure!
Amy: so excited for you!! Hope it all goes well today with your new little one!!! And thank you for the words of wisdom!
Jess: your baby shower offer? Totally take you up on it because I know it’d be FAB!!! And I gave you credit
nysoonergirl: I’ll totally keep you up to date. And I’ve heard once the baby starts moving and you can feel it? Alien-like. I guess we’ll see….
franzi: I can’t believe your birthday is exactly a month from mine!! Crazy! And if the sprout overstays his/her welcome for THAT long??? I’ll be one unhappy momma – that’s for sure
Breeza: thank you!!!!!
mm: It’s your turn for full disclosure!!! Also? YES! I can’t wait to find out the sex!!
Sam: thank you for such thoughtful advice! I know you’re right in the thick of parenting, so I may be asking you lots of questions in the future…..
apandorabox: aww! Thank you! That is a really sweet thing to say (tear)!! I’m such a sap these days
Zannah: thank you so much!!
Eeeeee, baby!!! So excited for you!
Congratulations! You are going to be a great mother!
As for parent help…you have to check out http://marriageconfessions.com/
no, it’s not that long of an overstay. february is a short month, remember?
i counted and march 2 is only 14 days from the due date. ok, in the upper range of what’s tolerated but certainly still possible
MFA Mama: Thank you!!!
franzi: YOU are CRAZY!!
PJ: you were in my spam folder!! I rescued you and reprimanded my blog. Thank you for the suggestion!!
Thank you for rescuing me!
Congratulations!!!!! And you’ve got the alliteration thing going.
CONGRATS! I was hoping that was what was happening! Good for y’all!
I am a little behind on my blog reading, so forgive my tardiness in wishing you CONGRATULATIONS!